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00:00:00.080 you're a man you are a man stand up and
00:00:04.080 be a man make the hard decisions make
00:00:07.560 the
00:00:08.760 sacrifices make the unpopular decisions
00:00:12.080 and become comfortable in your own skin
00:00:15.200 and if you are not a person that you are
00:00:17.640 comfortable being alone
00:00:19.960 with that is the one person in this
00:00:22.640 universe that you have full power full
00:00:25.960 right full responsibility to change
00:00:28.279 there's a moment
00:00:30.640 when every boy realizes no one's coming
00:00:32.558 to save him and that's when he becomes a
00:00:35.280 man and some boys never get there and
00:00:37.960 stay children forever when do you become
00:00:40.079 a man when you get a driver's license
00:00:42.760 like what do we do you 16 we give you a
00:00:44.440 driver's license okay well like you get
00:00:46.079 a job like when do you become a man you
00:00:48.480 become a man when you become responsible
00:00:50.559 for other
00:00:51.640 people and part of that is taking
00:00:54.079 accountability and so like I I'm very
00:00:56.399 new to this being a man thing and I'm
00:00:59.320 still not there
00:01:00.680 and I'm on a path I grew up on a in a
00:01:03.879 culture that told me going to war made
00:01:06.360 you a man going to prison coming back
00:01:08.560 coming back makes you a man making a
00:01:10.720 million dollars makes you a man you know
00:01:13.360 and and it doesn't and you don't know it
00:01:15.280 till you didn't done all these things
00:01:16.840 and realized damn I'm still a little
00:01:18.439 [ __ ] boy a man is supposed to take
00:01:21.000 care of his family you live in my house
00:01:23.240 for your belly with my food put you're
00:01:25.280 behind on my bed because you're my
00:01:28.079 son cuz I like you CU it's my duty to
00:01:30.880 take care of you I owe a responsibility
00:01:33.079 to you superior man it's within you it's
00:01:38.079 within every single one of us and the
00:01:40.399 people that have that have have risen to
00:01:42.479 that level were no different than any
00:01:44.399 one of us it's just they believe this
00:01:47.040 and they're willing to work their [ __ ]
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00:01:51.320 it it wasn't about the potential it
00:01:54.119 wasn't about the genetics it was about
00:01:55.600 the
00:01:56.439 perseverance and it was about being the
00:01:59.240 hardest worker in the room that's what
00:02:02.320 got them there and it didn't happen
00:02:03.759 overnight they got knocked down more
00:02:05.799 than they ever stood up but they kept
00:02:08.318 going and kept going and kept going and
00:02:09.959 kept going because what else is the
00:02:11.160 alternative to be average again that
00:02:14.640 sucks man and it really sucks when
00:02:17.720 you've tasted success at one point in
00:02:19.440 your life pain has passed down from
00:02:22.200 father to son and son to son a lot of
00:02:25.360 pain in Troy's life is a result of the
00:02:27.280 pain and damage from his father that he
00:02:30.519 then visits on his son we have to as
00:02:33.519 black men be mindful of that sometimes
00:02:35.319 it's unfair and sometimes we take it out
00:02:37.680 on those we love and and I'm I'm I'm I'm
00:02:40.159 guilty of that frustration that we all
00:02:42.879 have but we have a responsibility and a
00:02:45.680 duty to be fathers not to just make
00:02:49.000 babies but to be real fathers and you
00:02:52.440 can't expect any good to come to you if
00:02:55.280 you don't visit any good on your son or
00:02:57.319 your daughter so be a man I'm back down
00:03:01.560 from anyone and that's what got me in
00:03:03.560 trouble I don't play gam I don't kiss
00:03:05.680 anyone's ass and I'm a real man and
00:03:08.599 that's why that's long as to being a
00:03:10.560 fight anything I'm a man and that's why
00:03:11.879 I want to be a man and if I die I want
00:03:14.000 to die a man I don't want to die [ __ ]
00:03:16.159 little [ __ ] poodle in the street you
00:03:18.040 eat every day got a roof over your head
00:03:20.239 got clothes on your back Sir why you
00:03:21.799 think that is cuz of you hell I know
00:03:24.440 it's cuz of me but why do you think that
00:03:28.319 is cuz we
00:03:31.239 like you I go out of here every morning
00:03:34.920 I bust my butt putting up with them
00:03:36.920 crackers every day cuz I like you you're
00:03:40.159 about the biggest fool I ever saw it's
00:03:42.159 my job it's my
00:03:44.519 responsibility F hey I don't feel like
00:03:47.159 doing things that I still do it's called
00:03:49.239 discipline it's called being a man it's
00:03:50.920 not about feeling like doing it if you
00:03:52.519 only do things you feel like doing you
00:03:53.840 know what you end up doing you end up
00:03:55.200 sitting around with a belly drinking
00:03:57.439 soya latte
00:03:59.959 that's what you end up doing if you only
00:04:01.120 do what you feel like doing you have to
00:04:02.879 wake up and say I don't feel like
00:04:04.599 training but I must train I will only
00:04:06.840 drink water I will stop being a loser
00:04:09.640 you need to do what you're supposed to
00:04:11.959 do not what you feel like [ __ ] doing
00:04:14.760 that's the difference between a man and
00:04:16.120 a [ __ ] child you do not become a man
00:04:18.720 doing what you feel like doing you
00:04:20.040 become a man doing what you're supposed
00:04:21.358 to [ __ ] do the men of the Titanic
00:04:23.360 didn't feel like dying that day it's
00:04:25.759 your duty it is your duty to not be a
00:04:29.360 fat piece of [ __ ] I walked in the
00:04:31.600 recruiter's office and he looked at me
00:04:33.280 and he said you're fat and you're black
00:04:35.960 CU I said I want to be a Navy SEcL I
00:04:38.080 didn't know there' only been 35
00:04:39.560 cfrican-cmerican Navy sealers at that
00:04:41.479 time in over 70
00:04:44.479 years um he said I basically had to lose
00:04:48.080 106 lbs in less than 3 months because of
00:04:51.560 my age I was getting too old I came back
00:04:54.880 3 months later 106 lbs lighter I wish
00:04:59.199 the water was cold I wish them
00:05:01.320 [ __ ] instructions keep on
00:05:02.680 [ __ ] running I wish the [ __ ] rain
00:05:05.759 when the ending is unknown and the
00:05:08.320 distance is unknown that's when you know
00:05:10.880 who the [ __ ] you are be the guy who
00:05:14.360 Embraces the ugly the miserable be the
00:05:18.240 guy who Embraces hard work the grind
00:05:21.160 don't be afraid of being hurt don't be
00:05:23.280 afraid of shacking F some blood a
00:05:26.000 friendly reminder that in three
00:05:27.680 generations everyone who knew us will
00:05:29.919 dead including the people whose opinions
00:05:32.120 stopped you from doing what you wanted
00:05:33.600 all along imagine that someone you know
00:05:36.199 achieves every dream and hits every goal
00:05:37.680 they have years later they get old and
00:05:39.360 die 2 years after that how much do you
00:05:41.759 care about as much as everyone else will
00:05:44.360 if you accomplish your goals and dreams
00:05:46.680 do it for you to become that man uh that
00:05:51.759 you need to be and that the world around
00:05:53.800 you need you to be okay you need to work
00:05:57.440 on being a good man
00:06:00.280 now before you throw your hands
00:06:03.160 up there are a lot of people out there
00:06:05.560 that don't know what it means to be a
00:06:07.160 good
00:06:08.360 man especially now I'm going to kick
00:06:11.199 over a hornet's nest here especially in
00:06:13.720 the deeply religious
00:06:15.440 World they don't know what it means to
00:06:18.080 be a good
00:06:20.000 person listen to me the absence of evil
00:06:24.560 is not an automatic
00:06:27.240 indication of the presence of good I'm G
00:06:29.919 say that again the absence of evil is
00:06:32.560 not an automatic indication of the
00:06:35.080 presence of good you've got negative you
00:06:38.000 have positive and you have neutral
00:06:41.160 neutral is there's no negative but
00:06:43.759 there's no positive either which means
00:06:45.880 it's a big zero and we say down here on
00:06:48.520 the negative Dwayne I I don't do
00:06:51.639 drugs and I don't abuse women and I
00:06:55.680 don't steal from people and and I don't
00:06:59.840 do this and I don't do that and so they
00:07:02.840 do away with all the negatives but they
00:07:05.280 don't do anything positive
00:07:08.840 congratulations that person's a big zero
00:07:12.000 all right being
00:07:14.240 good being good is
00:07:17.319 proactive it's doing something it's just
00:07:20.319 caring about people the emotionally
00:07:22.479 immature man seeks out motivation to do
00:07:24.800 something hard one time the emotionally
00:07:27.120 mature man uses discipline to do
00:07:29.080 something hard a thousand times when you
00:07:31.280 really sit back at your life and you in
00:07:33.479 that dark room and you're looking at
00:07:35.840 where you started from and you tell
00:07:39.319 yourself ah dog man my mom is this way
00:07:42.560 my St stepdad got murdered my dad beat
00:07:44.680 the [ __ ] out of me I can't read and
00:07:46.960 write to say my [ __ ] soul I've lied
00:07:48.879 about it to everybody I've cheated on
00:07:50.520 all these
00:07:51.720 tests my God man and then you put a goal
00:07:56.400 in your
00:07:57.759 mind how you going to feel feel man when
00:08:00.240 you accomplished this goal coming from
00:08:02.440 that [ __ ] coming from the [ __ ] hell
00:08:05.479 you came from a lot of people start from
00:08:08.240 a good starting point they have a good
00:08:09.840 foundation what if you can surpass all
00:08:11.840 of these [ __ ] if everybody who
00:08:14.400 was [ __ ] way up here started up here
00:08:17.520 and you had you started with no legs you
00:08:19.720 had to grow [ __ ] legs to even start
00:08:22.000 walking and then crawling then running
00:08:24.319 and then you start passing people with
00:08:25.840 all this given to them more men
00:08:27.599 realizing that it's not just about
00:08:30.080 the car the watch the possessions
00:08:33.479 working until my eyes bleed um at the
00:08:36.279 project obviously the finance is what
00:08:38.519 most people think about right well if I
00:08:40.719 just make good money I'll be a good
00:08:42.279 provider as a man most men think that
00:08:44.080 they're relegated to just being a
00:08:45.480 provider well I provide a roof over
00:08:47.399 their head they're safe they have food
00:08:50.040 they have school supplies but there's
00:08:52.360 more to being a man you know there is
00:08:53.880 more to be in a man what about a level
00:08:55.640 of faith is in confidence in yourself
00:08:57.480 Faith In Yourself faith in a higher
00:08:59.000 power that there's a path for you right
00:09:01.640 faith in your friends and your circle of
00:09:03.160 influence that these guys who set up
00:09:04.760 this amazing studio can set it up in a
00:09:06.519 way that we can have this moment right
00:09:09.760 so then You' got your faith you got your
00:09:11.279 finances great what about Fitness and on
00:09:14.000 the fitness side I believe that physical
00:09:16.760 fitness is the gateway drug to emotional
00:09:19.680 and mental Fitness most people who do
00:09:22.320 get fit physically completely neglect
00:09:25.839 mental and emotional hygiene and they
00:09:28.160 are living stressed overwhelmed addicted
00:09:30.600 to Vices or financially broke because
00:09:33.040 they completely forgot about the other F
00:09:35.399 pillars and so that Fitness is really
00:09:37.480 about can you be physically fit because
00:09:39.200 think about what level of focus
00:09:41.399 consistency delayed gratification
00:09:44.240 discipline that is required for a man to
00:09:47.000 get lean jacked and stay lean and jacked
00:09:49.399 for a prolonged period of time that's a
00:09:51.399 lot of [ __ ] you got to do I had to use
00:09:54.399 all this negative [ __ ] that was making
00:09:56.760 me weak and horrible as a person
00:09:59.959 I had to use this as the power that now
00:10:02.760 fueled me I had to flip it on his head
00:10:04.399 and say hold
00:10:05.600 up this might be exactly what I need the
00:10:09.600 darkness is exactly what I need it's how
00:10:13.200 you look at your situation and I was
00:10:15.880 looking at it all [ __ ] up that poor
00:10:19.519 baguer cashier at Walmart with the tired
00:10:23.120 eyes and the swollen ankles just look
00:10:26.160 her down and ask her how are you doing
00:10:28.040 today
00:10:29.839 just somebody actually
00:10:32.240 cares you know we talk about holding the
00:10:34.480 door well somebody stops on the side of
00:10:37.040 the road your neighbor down the road is
00:10:39.279 in a difficult place and they can't get
00:10:41.000 their yard mode the old lady across the
00:10:43.519 street the Old Gentleman across the
00:10:44.959 street it snows just take your shovel
00:10:46.760 and go on a shoulder
00:10:48.200 sidewalk just somebody at work you you
00:10:51.639 watch and you look and people at work
00:10:53.279 they're going through a hard time just
00:10:55.360 hey are you all right anything I can do
00:10:57.800 to help just in your life in your life
00:11:02.920 be an agent for good it's kind of like
00:11:05.959 people say I support the
00:11:07.800 troops I support the troops what do you
00:11:10.320 do for the troops do you send them care
00:11:12.600 packages no do you walk up to them when
00:11:15.360 you see them in a restaurant the airport
00:11:16.959 uniform and do you stick your hand out
00:11:18.480 and say thank you for your service no I
00:11:21.120 don't do anything but I support the
00:11:23.000 troops no that just means you're not
00:11:24.560 against the
00:11:25.720 troops and going through life become a
00:11:29.800 good
00:11:31.360 man a woman I believe in
00:11:34.600 self-discipline self- Pride self
00:11:36.880 motivation no one has that self anymore
00:11:40.079 that self is gone so that driving force
00:11:43.720 that tells you I have to do this [ __ ] I
00:11:47.440 took great pride in the fact that I was
00:11:50.440 nobody and what you just describe put
00:11:52.839 Goosebumps on me because that's exactly
00:11:54.639 where I took pride in was I'm going to
00:11:56.680 make sure you're good and you're good my
00:11:58.320 mom will tell you right now she's right
00:12:00.120 there sitting she is she knows I don't
00:12:02.639 buy myself [ __ ] I take great pride in
00:12:04.880 that I don't want because how I'm wired
00:12:09.320 I'm wired to hey Mom I'm going get you
00:12:11.279 this this this and this my girl
00:12:13.760 everybody's got everything I don't even
00:12:15.920 own a car I'm a
00:12:18.720 multi-millionaire I said it with
00:12:20.920 pride because what I was here to do as a
00:12:25.199 man and men may not even want to hear
00:12:28.480 this this sounds so
00:12:30.560 barbaric that's the pride in what you
00:12:33.000 have as a man is that you see your mom
00:12:36.120 you see your girl you see your kids you
00:12:37.920 see all this [ __ ] you see them doing
00:12:41.720 well that's all a real man wants they
00:12:45.199 don't give a how they dress how they
00:12:47.320 look what they're driving they don't
00:12:49.040 give a sh because why your trophies are
00:12:53.240 your family and they're all walking
00:12:54.920 around every man that sees you they they
00:12:57.680 see you walking in with some sweatpants
00:12:59.320 and [ __ ] but they know your family's
00:13:02.639 falling because you put the time in you
00:13:06.320 put the effort in you put the work in
00:13:09.079 and as a man we don't want none of that
00:13:11.639 [ __ ] we just want respect and that's
00:13:14.880 what men don't give a now but the only
00:13:18.399 thing I want is from my family look at
00:13:20.519 me and
00:13:21.760 say that's the man right there and men
00:13:25.800 don't [ __ ] have that they don't know
00:13:28.000 what that feels like so until you know
00:13:30.320 what that feels like you're never going
00:13:32.320 to seek that feeling of when things are
00:13:35.480 bad my family looks to me as they should
00:13:38.440 as they should that's your job that is
00:13:40.160 my [ __ ] job and I earned that it's not
00:13:43.560 giving because you wake up and you're a
00:13:45.079 man and it feels real good it feels
00:13:47.040 amazing when anything goes wrong in my
00:13:49.600 family if there's a flat tire don't call
00:13:51.920 [ __ ] triaa call David Goin mom's got a
00:13:55.639 problem David my mom's sick David she
00:13:58.279 don't call c
00:13:59.959 David anybody they call David and that's
00:14:02.839 earned that's a good
00:14:04.720 feeling and I would challenge
00:14:08.120 men to try that try that try that for a
00:14:13.240 couple days try working those 20 hour
00:14:15.680 shifts and coming home and having your
00:14:18.279 girl have a meal at home I guarantee
00:14:19.959 your girl looks at you very different
00:14:22.279 every day you come home and you're dirty
00:14:24.240 as or you or you're just tired and you
00:14:27.320 and she knows only getting four hours of
00:14:29.160 sleep and then when you go to work she's
00:14:33.040 sleeping because it's 4:00 in the
00:14:35.160 [ __ ] morning and you look at her she
00:14:37.600 knows what kind of man she's got your
00:14:40.480 mom knows your dad knows what kind of
00:14:41.920 son they have they don't know that
00:14:44.480 feeling it's the best feel in the world
00:14:46.880 money can't buy it nothing can buy it so
00:14:50.480 it's just something that we almost can't
00:14:53.480 teach our kids anymore because the world
00:14:56.399 is influencing people from all over once
00:14:59.560 they leave your house you got this weak
00:15:02.040 family that weak family and that weak
00:15:03.839 family saying why is your dad like that
00:15:06.040 why are you doing that so it's hard to
00:15:08.560 keep it man and how can you not want
00:15:11.680 that how can you not want that that's
00:15:15.079 old school savy bro 100% old school savy
00:15:19.199 purpose is always there the purpose
00:15:21.920 never leaves us cuz the very purpose is
00:15:25.160 you you are always the purpose there may
00:15:28.639 be other purpose like being a seal or
00:15:31.560 going to college or whatever but the
00:15:33.519 main purpose in life is you so if you
00:15:36.240 wake up in the morning and you don't
00:15:37.800 want to do
00:15:39.199 something you don't care enough about
00:15:41.279 yourself idea is a very simple one and
00:15:43.720 you know the mama mentality simply means
00:15:46.759 trying to be the best version of
00:15:48.720 yourself that's what the mentality means
00:15:51.199 it means every day you're trying to
00:15:54.000 become better clean up your room
00:15:56.880 organize your local landscape SK your
00:15:59.480 time start taking control of yourself
00:16:01.720 see if you can stop saying things you
00:16:04.000 know to be lies stop saying and doing
00:16:06.800 things that make you feel weak this is
00:16:10.480 yours you're the captain you're the
00:16:14.000 master you're the foreman you're the
00:16:17.319 general you're the head don't give
00:16:20.720 control of this to
00:16:23.120 nobody especially the devil do not let
00:16:27.680 Satan come in in here and function and
00:16:31.480 operate because he has one mission to
00:16:34.519 keep you off course to make you not
00:16:37.240 think is possible to make you think that
00:16:40.079 God don't hear you his job is only to
00:16:43.040 destroy you to make sure that you don't
00:16:46.240 become what God intended for you to
00:16:48.440 become to find your way in life is not
00:16:52.079 an external search it's an internal
00:16:55.360 search because God equipped you the
00:16:57.800 moment he gave birth
00:16:59.759 God equipped you at Birth with what you
00:17:01.519 needed he gave all of you a gift all of
00:17:04.520 you every last one of you you're gifted
00:17:08.559 God never created a soul without giving
00:17:10.520 him a gift all of you sitting in here
00:17:13.119 were given a gift at Birth he put it
00:17:16.039 inside you you ain't got to look under
00:17:17.720 the ocean it ain't on a mountain it
00:17:19.559 ain't under no rocks he put it in you at
00:17:21.799 verd he gave you a gift it is the thing
00:17:24.280 that you do the absolute best with the
00:17:25.760 least amount of effort that's your
00:17:27.439 god-given gift
00:17:29.360 that's the thing you should pursue the
00:17:32.080 scripture says your gift will make room
00:17:34.280 for you and put you in the presence of
00:17:36.400 important men that's what your gift will
00:17:39.559 do be a dangerous
00:17:42.120 man now being dangerous is not being a
00:17:45.400 threat they're two different
00:17:47.160 things and it's not about going out and
00:17:49.679 lifting weights and getting a bunch of
00:17:51.280 tattoos and wearing leather jackets and
00:17:53.080 walking around with your chest and
00:17:55.120 shoulders up hulking around saying I'm
00:17:57.000 dangerous that's very rarely is out a
00:17:59.200 dangerous
00:18:00.960 man often the most dangerous man in the
00:18:03.400 room is the quietest man in war these
00:18:06.200 short forner stones of I think you know
00:18:08.960 classic masculinity are super super
00:18:11.240 important equally important is being
00:18:14.200 kind is being empathetic is to stand up
00:18:16.200 for somebody who has less rights than
00:18:18.480 you somebody who's being picked down
00:18:19.919 somebody who's being put into the corner
00:18:21.720 somebody who's just sad as a man we
00:18:24.159 expected to be a divid be a proteced in
00:18:26.400 relationship but it's time that we start
00:18:29.080 expecting more of them to be good is to
00:18:33.320 do good to people so now doing good to
00:18:36.320 people is protecting those
00:18:40.280 people it's protecting those people
00:18:42.880 protecting those around with canete
00:18:45.240 disregard for his own safety Lance Coral
00:18:48.039 Carpenter moved towards the grenade in
00:18:50.000 an attempt to Shield his fellow and the
00:18:52.760 blast in the grenade detonated his body
00:18:55.679 absorbed the blunts of the blast
00:18:57.679 severely wounding him
00:18:59.320 that's saving the life of this fellow
00:19:01.400 Marine they found Kyle lying face down
00:19:04.280 directly over the Blaster his helmet was
00:19:07.000 riddled with holes his gear was melted
00:19:10.120 part of his Kevlar vest was blown
00:19:13.080 away one of the doctors who treated him
00:19:15.960 later said Kyle was literally wounded
00:19:17.600 from the top of his head to Mis it's
00:19:20.360 okay to be a men it's not okay it's
00:19:24.520 necessary what the hell are we going to
00:19:26.360 do without men you look around the city
00:19:28.919 here you see all these buildings go up
00:19:30.559 these men they're doing impossible
00:19:32.120 things they're under the streets working
00:19:34.120 on the sewers they're up on the power
00:19:35.840 lines in the storms and the and the rain
00:19:38.679 we're keeping this impossible
00:19:40.520 infrastructure functioning this thing
00:19:43.400 that works and miraculous manner they
00:19:46.600 work themselves to death and often
00:19:50.400 literally if you don't own something
00:19:53.200 you're not the
00:19:54.400 boss you have to take full
00:19:56.480 responsibility for everything that you
00:19:57.919 do why be
00:20:00.000 subservient you must be the master of
00:20:02.799 your own kingdom a massive
00:20:04.320 infrastructure of unbelievably
00:20:07.159 hardworking solidly laboring working
00:20:10.039 class men breaking themselves in half on
00:20:13.080 a regular basis making sure that
00:20:15.799 everything that always breaks works now
00:20:19.120 Lo flowing cndy all right but you say
00:20:24.120 one one disrespectful thing to my wife
00:20:28.240 and my press where I get a phone call
00:20:31.000 from one of my daughters she's
00:20:33.120 crying um I am not only willing but I
00:20:37.640 able to inflict great bodily damage and
00:20:40.760 I will do so feelings has nothing to do
00:20:43.799 with it um this is my
00:20:46.679 dream this is what I'm going to do and
00:20:49.880 I'm going to do the things that I don't
00:20:51.840 feel like doing I'm going to do the
00:20:53.840 things I don't want to do I'm going to
00:20:55.600 do the things that don't come easy to to
00:20:58.720 me that do not come natural to me I
00:21:00.960 won't get up and do it you can't live
00:21:02.919 your life on feelings you cannot let
00:21:05.320 your feelings dictate what you are or
00:21:08.360 are not going to do today you know it
00:21:12.520 doesn't get easy my friends running 12
00:21:15.320 plus miles a day doing 800 plus push-ups
00:21:18.520 a day lifting weights every single day
00:21:21.679 working two jobs working out of my
00:21:24.440 comfort zone at the club but it's worth
00:21:27.480 it because if you think it's about
00:21:29.679 business you're wrong if you think it's
00:21:32.240 about the money you're wrong cuz it all
00:21:34.960 goes back to one point one important
00:21:37.440 point my
00:21:38.559 friend I'm been it for the
00:21:41.240 mentality the mentality to keep going no
00:21:44.559 matter what happens if you just try to
00:21:47.279 be
00:21:48.159 pampered and if you're trying to be
00:21:50.960 soft and if you're trying to be the
00:21:53.039 victim of those of you going to go
00:21:56.000 anywhere we need to get stronger so why
00:21:59.200 you just sit back and you wait for
00:22:00.679 somebody to Pat you on the shoulder and
00:22:02.480 say it's okay at least you gave it your
00:22:04.520 best your best ain't good enough your
00:22:06.880 best don't work you need to go beyond
00:22:09.039 your best you need to go beyond the
00:22:10.840 level you need to let the world know
00:22:12.679 that you exist you need to let the world
00:22:14.760 know that you made different you built
00:22:16.919 different you're stronger you're more
00:22:18.760 passionate you believe in yourself when
00:22:20.679 the rest of the world Shak you down you
00:22:22.720 woke up the next day and you said I got
00:22:25.080 this I do this I breathe this I am this
00:22:28.320 you you can't stop me for who I am why I
00:22:31.360 am who I am and what I stand for you
00:22:33.919 don't belong in this world you don't
00:22:35.679 belong in my world of life you don't
00:22:37.559 belong in my world of person you don't
00:22:39.440 belong in my world of passion you don't
00:22:41.240 belong in my world of strength you know
00:22:43.120 why cuz you ain't strong enough you're
00:22:44.760 not willing enough you're not passionate
00:22:46.679 enough and you know why I'm so
00:22:48.080 passionate because the rest of the world
00:22:49.600 don't understand my passion the other
00:22:51.480 world don't want my passion they think
00:22:53.360 my passion is too much I'm going to give
00:22:55.240 you a little bit more you know why
00:22:56.919 because passion is what me me who I am
00:22:59.480 today get it 17 they don't know me son
00:23:03.640 get it 18 they know me son get it 19 big
00:23:08.320 son yeah 20 you got
00:23:11.039 some 21 yeah get
00:23:14.720 again come on we want to see it you need
00:23:18.080 to love pain and I know no pain no this
00:23:21.440 whatever all the you know the oh my no
00:23:24.760 this is real you need to love
00:23:29.880 pain how is it mentally physically love
00:23:33.880 it you need to love it if not stay away
00:23:37.159 you want the only way you're going to
00:23:38.360 get strength in your life is if you go
00:23:40.880 through that hard moment that tough
00:23:42.440 moment I wouldn't have a story if it
00:23:44.799 wasn't for the sucky times in my life I
00:23:47.200 wouldn't have a story if it wasn't for
00:23:48.600 me going through my depressed moments so
00:23:50.760 realize this just because it's a chapter
00:23:53.559 it doesn't mean it's your whole story so
00:23:55.520 for me I just understand it's very
00:23:57.320 important to to Embrace pain to go
00:24:00.200 through it because I believe the
00:24:02.360 foundation of all strength is pain what
00:24:05.440 are you want to give up what are you
00:24:08.039 willing to sacrifice what are you
00:24:10.400 willing to
00:24:12.600 forgo because a lot of people like this
00:24:15.760 guy came one time I was a trainer he
00:24:18.200 goes man I can stop doing anything but
00:24:20.440 my
00:24:21.240 Frappuccinos I go [ __ ]
00:24:23.520 leave because I'm looking for that
00:24:25.679 person like me people people is hard
00:24:28.399 hard for people to understand how I lost
00:24:29.760 106 lbs in less than 3
00:24:32.320 months I sat down at the table and I
00:24:35.720 said to myself what are you willing to
00:24:37.679 give up
00:24:40.240 everything and when people come to me
00:24:42.720 with that kind of M mindset I can work
00:24:44.760 with you when you are willing to strip
00:24:47.600 yourself down to nothing and give
00:24:51.399 everything that's who I want to work
00:24:53.480 with because now I can mold you into
00:24:56.880 exactly who you want to be
00:24:59.120 when you put these restrictions up and
00:25:01.840 that's why that's why my first question
00:25:03.200 is how bad do you want this if this is
00:25:06.399 bad as you want to live or breathe or
00:25:09.159 sleep whatever the hell it may be I can
00:25:11.760 work with you but a lot of people most
00:25:14.000 people don't want it that badly which
00:25:16.520 why they always ask the question man how
00:25:17.720 did you get to where you are you know
00:25:19.640 how to do it you know exactly how to be
00:25:22.960 you or how to be me you don't want to do
00:25:25.880 it best day of your life is when you
00:25:27.679 realize nobody's come to sa and when you
00:25:30.480 can realize that and you can kind of
00:25:32.760 cynically smile because you know you
00:25:34.240 want the ball in your court then you're
00:25:36.640 well on your way to being successful and
00:25:38.360 you take full responsibility of
00:25:39.799 everything good or bad even if you don't
00:25:42.880 do the actual task if you take
00:25:44.480 responsibility fully you're free get up
00:25:47.399 at 4:00 in the [ __ ] morning one day
00:25:49.360 just one day and go for a [ __ ] run
00:25:51.679 commit to one day and see how you feel
00:25:54.559 as you're jogging back in around 5 or
00:25:56.600 something as your neighbors are still as
00:25:58.520 sleep or is you're jogging back in at
00:26:00.520 6:00 and your neighbor just getting up
00:26:02.480 grabbing the coffee looking outside
00:26:04.360 wondering you know what the day is going
00:26:05.600 to hold for them well your day's already
00:26:07.200 provided something for you you see how
00:26:09.679 that works mentally you feel like wow
00:26:11.919 man that was [ __ ] alive a real person
00:26:15.200 a real clpha a real go-getter they ain't
00:26:17.919 saying [ __ ] about nobody correct that's
00:26:19.760 why you will never ever hear me dropping
00:26:23.720 somebody's name running my mouth about
00:26:26.520 somebody I don't know what you went
00:26:28.679 through I don't know what you're going
00:26:30.320 through I didn't wear the shoes you wore
00:26:32.159 when you were a kid I didn't grow up in
00:26:34.159 your [ __ ] up house I didn't have your
00:26:36.279 [ __ ] up family I don't know [ __ ] about
00:26:38.159 you so guess what I do shut the [ __ ] up
00:26:42.480 cuz real men don't say [ __ ] cuz first of
00:26:46.000 all we're too busy trying to grind and
00:26:47.480 be better correct second of
00:26:49.679 all unless we know what we know we know
00:26:52.399 we shut our [ __ ] mouths but nowadays
00:26:55.480 there's not many real men who who who
00:26:57.480 live by that treed of like you know if
00:27:00.399 you're on social media running your
00:27:01.720 [ __ ] mouth and [ __ ] you're just a
00:27:03.919 [ __ ] correct you're you're honestly
00:27:06.600 that's not me trying to be some after
00:27:08.039 school special [ __ ] you really are a
00:27:10.399 [ __ ] real men ain't doing it real men
00:27:12.880 don't care about that gossipy [ __ ]
00:27:15.039 get to work man you don't start things
00:27:17.080 are not finished you don't
00:27:19.440 quit there's nothing that comes out of
00:27:22.039 quitting besides knowing that you didn't
00:27:24.399 finish we finish everything you start it
00:27:27.480 finish it if you're going to do it do it
00:27:30.080 to try and be the best not be better
00:27:32.720 than other people be the best for you
00:27:35.360 sacrifice temporary fun for permanent
00:27:38.440 dreams or sacrifice your permanent
00:27:40.919 dreams for temporary fun and the reality
00:27:43.000 is a lot of you guys are willing to
00:27:44.159 sacrifice your permanent dreams for some
00:27:45.880 temporary fun that temporary fun is
00:27:47.840 never going to get you [ __ ] anywhere
00:27:49.440 cuz I'll tell you this going to the club
00:27:51.640 partying drinking popping bottles are
00:27:53.840 those people going to be there 10 years
00:27:54.960 from now when you're a [ __ ] broy
00:27:56.200 wondering what the [ __ ] you did and your
00:27:57.840 most in the years that you were supposed
00:27:59.200 to be productive let me tell you son
00:28:00.720 they won't [ __ ] be there you won't
00:28:01.960 even remember them you might have them
00:28:03.360 in your phone log somewhere but you
00:28:04.919 won't even know who the [ __ ] they are at
00:28:06.480 that point your party buddies and [ __ ]
00:28:08.200 like that they won't be around 10 years
00:28:09.480 from now so you got to ask yourself
00:28:11.640 since they're not going to be around
00:28:12.559 you're going to have yourself you want
00:28:14.080 to be able to look at that person in the
00:28:15.279 mirror and be like damn I wasted all
00:28:17.240 that time popping bottles running around
00:28:19.559 chasing women like a [ __ ] [ __ ] and I
00:28:21.840 have nothing to show for it or you can
00:28:24.200 go ahead and sacrifice that fun right
00:28:26.679 now and then be able to build bu
00:28:28.279 yourself into a situation where you
00:28:29.880 could go ahead and go to the club and
00:28:31.519 it's not going to set you back it's not
00:28:32.600 going to [ __ ] you up because you built a
00:28:33.880 solid foundation you built an Empire up
00:28:35.799 where now you have the privilege that
00:28:38.919 you've earned by the way to go out and
00:28:41.159 do these things 90% of your life will
00:28:44.320 suck 10% will be [ __ ] happy you may
00:28:47.799 be lucky guy and have a lot of [ __ ]
00:28:49.399 money have a great ass woman all this
00:28:50.799 [ __ ] trust me oneon-one with that
00:28:53.159 [ __ ] guy he's missing something his
00:28:55.600 life still sucks cuz he hasn't faced
00:28:57.559 something that bothered him his whole
00:28:58.840 [ __ ] life something is still eating
00:29:01.080 that [ __ ] up I can't see my kid
00:29:03.640 they have 12 years old the mentality are
00:29:05.840 not the same they are not suffer that
00:29:07.880 what's the difference the anger I think
00:29:11.120 the anger I think that they have the
00:29:13.840 things more easily everything it's
00:29:15.880 easily they don't suffer and I think
00:29:18.640 it's they don't care I have a
00:29:21.200 [ __ ] come wake me up at 3:00 in
00:29:23.640 the [ __ ] morning say hey you got to
00:29:24.840 get your [ __ ] in I have no trainer I a
00:29:27.320 have a nutr
00:29:29.279 it was the self-discipline that I had to
00:29:31.440 survive not survive surv I was weak to
00:29:33.960 to to to to thrive no one say hey man
00:29:36.960 you're 297 lbs man um I'm going to help
00:29:40.159 you out I'm help hey man you're [ __ ]
00:29:42.720 you're not smart I'm I'm going to help
00:29:45.200 you out I I had to work at all this [ __ ]
00:29:48.799 I had to
00:29:49.840 overcome and and it it it self-d
00:29:53.880 disciplines everything and if you don't
00:29:55.600 have it I I don't look at you right cuz
00:29:57.080 I know you're capable of more we don't
00:29:59.960 kill nobody we don't push nobody we
00:30:01.919 don't make nobody like if you don't want
00:30:04.200 okay live like even yesterday I was
00:30:06.559 talking with them it was it was Saturday
00:30:08.880 and everybody complained about they
00:30:11.799 tired what you want all week you was
00:30:14.399 work hard end of the week if you don't
00:30:17.200 Tire it this is good question you have
00:30:19.720 to worry about yourself this is Saturday
00:30:22.640 your sixth day you work so hard of
00:30:24.720 course you're going to
00:30:26.360 tired tomorrow and Monday we're going to
00:30:29.039 begin one more training if you don't
00:30:31.279 want go back to dagistan and stay with
00:30:33.080 your mom she going to give you every day
00:30:35.039 good breakfast you don't do nothing stay
00:30:37.519 there but if you come here don't
00:30:39.679 complain you want to become best you
00:30:41.480 want to become champion and now you want
00:30:43.480 to say like you're tired who cares
00:30:46.000 you're tired or not nobody care about
00:30:48.120 you even you if you're going to watch
00:30:50.039 fight you just watch fight M they walk
00:30:53.360 out inside the cage they fight and they
00:30:55.840 live you don't know what happened behind
00:30:58.080 the sense yeah this is not your business
00:31:01.120 nobody care about this yeah he was tired
00:31:04.320 he have personal problem family
00:31:07.200 nobody you don't know like you just see
00:31:10.159 how he fight and he go yeah and for this
00:31:13.000 one you have to train so hard if you
00:31:14.760 don't
00:31:16.799 wantas go back go back to dagistan
00:31:19.200 nobody going to ask about yourself
00:31:21.399 without you or with you yeah there is is
00:31:25.399 always going to be Champions M with you
00:31:27.960 your name this is your choice you want
00:31:30.320 to put your name there okay work hard no
00:31:33.519 bye-bye I'm doing something I don't want
00:31:35.200 to do every time I start doing things I
00:31:37.039 don't want to do I grow yes that is a
00:31:40.760 that's a lesson that people need to hear
00:31:42.919 and learn it's so important because
00:31:45.000 everybody just wants to be comfortable
00:31:47.000 everybody wants to sit in the I don't
00:31:48.360 want to go outside it's cold I don't
00:31:49.559 want to do this it's hot like you've got
00:31:51.440 to do things that you don't want to do
00:31:53.279 cuz you show your body that your mind is
00:31:56.039 the boss your mind is telling your body
00:31:58.960 what to do and then you have control I
00:32:01.279 got an email 2 weeks ago from a family
00:32:03.919 member that an 11-year-old boy killed
00:32:06.880 himself from people at school bullying
00:32:08.880 him one thing about life is that people
00:32:11.840 in life they have the ultimate Puppet
00:32:14.279 Masters they exploit your weakness and
00:32:16.880 they love to walk you around like and
00:32:18.760 own space in your head one of the
00:32:20.840 biggest ways to cut those strings and
00:32:23.120 walk on your own two [ __ ] feet to
00:32:25.200 your own destination in life is to build
00:32:28.440 self-respect self-esteem self-discipline
00:32:31.919 all those things stay hard is not just
00:32:34.519 about going to the [ __ ] gym stay hard
00:32:37.240 is about going that extra step and you
00:32:39.120 feel like you can that's what builds
00:32:40.840 self-esteem and self-respect stay hard
00:32:43.120 if you're a victim of any
00:32:44.799 kind make sure you use that [ __ ] to
00:32:47.320 become
00:32:48.600 successful don't look for Revenge look
00:32:51.960 for the [ __ ] Reckoning and I
00:32:54.240 guarantee you all those people who [ __ ]
00:32:57.080 with you growing up
00:32:59.039 you might just be their boss they going
00:33:01.519 come looking for a [ __ ] favor and
00:33:04.039 when they do you got an option to say
00:33:06.960 okay or do what I do and say go [ __ ]
00:33:11.120 yourself H beware of one thing
00:33:14.279 [ __ ] spitting in the wind that
00:33:17.440 [ __ ] comes back in your face stay hard