21 Things I Want in a Lover

Alanis Morissette

About 21 Things I Want in a Lover

"21 Things I Want in a Lover" (sometimes referred as just "21 Things") is a song recorded by Canadian singer-songwriter Alanis Morissette for her fifth studio album, Under Rug Swept (2002). "21 Things I Want in a Lover" was all written, arranged and produced by Morissette. It is an alternative rock song, featuring guitarist Dean DeLeo of Stone Temple Pilots. Lyrically, the song talks about all the 21 qualities that Morissette would like the most to find in a lover. "21 Things" received mixed reviews from critics, with many praising it as a standout track on the album, but others found issues with the song's lyrics. The song was only released in Brazil, charting on the Hot 100 chart, peaking inside the top-fifty. A video for the song was also released there, featuring clips from the DVD "Feast on Scraps" and live shows. Morissette performed the track during the "Toward Our Union Mended Tour" (2002), "So-Called Chaos Tour" (2004) and the "Guardian Angel" (2012). 


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2002
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Do you derive joy when someone else succeeds? 
Do you not play dirty when engaged in competition? 
Do you have a big intellectual capacity but know 
That it alone does not equate wisdom? 
Do you see everything as an illusion? 
But enjoy it even though you are not of it? 
Are you both masculine and feminine? politically aware? 
And don't believe in capital punishment? 

These are 21 things that I want in a lover 
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer 

Do you derive joy from diving in and seeing that 
Loving someone can actually feel like freedom? are you funny? 
la self-deprecating? like adventure? and have many formed opinions?

These are 21 things that I want in a lover 
Not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer 
I figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matter 
These are 21 things I choose to choose in a lover 

I'm in no hurry I could wait forever 
I'm in no rush 'cause I like being solo 
There are no worries and certainly no pressure in the meantime 
I'll live like there's no tomorrow 

Are you uninhibited in bed? more than three times a week? 
Up for being experimental? are you athletic? 
Are you thriving in a job that helps your brother? are you not addicted?
...curious and communicative...

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Alanis Morissette

Alanis Nadine Morissette (born June 1, 1974) is a Canadian and American singer-songwriter, guitarist, record producer and actress. She has won 16 Juno Awards and seven Grammy Awards, was nominated for two Golden Globe Awards. Morissette began her career in Canada, and as a teenager recorded two dance-pop albums, Alanis and Now Is the Time, under MCA Records Canada. more »

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Written by: Alanis Morissette

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10 facts about this song

Album Facts
"21 Things I Want in a Lover" is featured on Morissette's fifth studio album, "Under Rug Swept", released back in 2002, making it one of her more recent works. The album overall explores themes of love, relationships, and introspection.
Message Facts
This song expresses Morissette's wishes for the ideal traits of her future lover. Rather than focusing on physical attributes or wealth, she asks for her lover to have self-awareness, be intellectually challenging, and possess a sense of humor.
Songwriting Facts
Alanis Morissette penned "21 Things I Want in a Lover" herself, adding an impression of personal intimacy to the song. The lyrics reflect her own personal desires, tapping into her experiences and beliefs about relationships.
Critical Reception Facts
"21 Things I Want in a Lover" received positive reviews from critics, praised for its serious yet humorous take on the subject of love and relationships.
Music Style Facts
The song represents a fusion of pop and rock music, a signature style of Alanis Morissette's musical genre known as alt-rock or alternative rock.
Track Facts
"21 Things I Want in a Lover" opens the album “Under Rug Swept”, setting off an impactful beginning with its racy lyrics and melody.
Performance and Chart Facts
Though the song wasn't a single and didn’t have major chart success, Morissette frequently performs it at her concerts.
Lyricism Facts
Unlike some of her other songs which heavily feature metaphors and abstract imagery, "21 Things I Want in a Lover" is quite direct and explicit about its wishes. This straightforward style establishes a clear and immediate intimacy with the listeners.
Unique Facts
Despite having quite a longish title, the song does not actually list 21 specific attributes in its lyrics. However, the repeated phrase "But how 'bout" introduces each new attribute, creating a sense of enumeration and progression.
Inspirational Facts
"21 Things I Want in a Lover" serves as a witty and candid exploration of one's standards in a partner, encouraging listeners to actively choose what they want in their own relationships.

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