Lover I Don't Have to Love

Bright Eyes

About Lover I Don't Have to Love

"Lover I Don't Have to Love" is a song by Bright Eyes released as a single in 2002 and released on the album Lifted or The Story Is in the Soil, Keep Your Ear to the Ground. The music video is karaoke with sing-along lyrics and different ambiences in the background. It was covered by Bettie Serveert on their 2004 album Attagirl, and this cover was played extensively during the episode "The Undertow" of The O. C. The line "I asked your name, you asked the time" is a reference to the novel The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger. Single cover photograph by Casey Scott. 


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I picked you out
Of a crowd and talked to you
Said I liked your shoes
You said: "Thanks can I follow you?"
So it's up the stairs
And out of view--no prying eyes
I poured some wine
I asked your name, you asked the time

Now it's two o'clock
The club is closed, we're up the block
Your hands on me
I'm pressing hard against your jeans
Your tongue in my mouth
Trying to keep the words from coming out
You didn't care to know
Who else may have been you before

I want a lover I don't have to love
I want a girl who's too sad to give a f*ck
Where's the kid with the chemicals?
I thought he said to meet me here but I'm not sure
I got the money if you got the time
You said it feels good--I said I'll give it a try

Then my mind went dark
We both forgot where your car was parked
Let's just take the train
I'll meet up with the band in the morning

Bad actors with bad habits
Some sad singers
They just play tragic
And the phone's ringing
And the van's leaving
Let's just keep touching
Let's just keep keep singing

I want a lover I don't have to love
I want a boy who's so drunk he doesn't talk
Where's the kid with the chemicals?
I got a hunger and I can't seem to get full
I need some meaning I can memorize
The kind I have always seems to slip my mind

But you, but you
You write such pretty words
But life's no story book
Love's an excuse to get hurt
And to hurt
"Do you like to hurt?"
"I do! I do!"
"Then hurt me."

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Bright Eyes

Bright Eyes is an American indie rock band founded by singer-songwriter and guitarist Conor Oberst. It consists of Oberst, multi-instrumentalist and producer Mike Mogis, trumpet and piano player Nate Walcott, and a rotating lineup of collaborators drawn primarily from Omaha's indie music scene. more »

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Written by: Conor Oberst

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11 facts about this song

Song Production
This song was first released by the American band "Bright Eyes" in 2002 on their album "Lifted or The Story is in the Soil, Keep Your Ear to the Ground."
Versions
The song was later covered by the Dutch indie-rock band "Bettie Serveert" in their album "Attagirl" in 2005 and released as a single.
Musical Style
"Lover I Don't Have to Love" is characterized by its melancholic timbre, with bright electronic elements combined with minor key piano, and reflective lyrics.
Song Topics
The song explores themes of unrequited love, heartbreak, and disappointment.
Album Details
The album by Bright Eyes debuted at number 161 on the Billboard 200 Album chart, showing the band's increasing popularity.
Band Information
"Bettie Serveert" is a Dutch indie-rock band formed in 1986, known for their distinctive guitar-driven sound.
Critical Reception
The song was praised for its emotional delivery and introspective lyrics, demonstrating Conor Oberst's songwriting abilities.
Live Performances
Despite its somber themes, "Lover I Don't Have to Love" is often performed at Bright Eyes' concert for its striking, emotive quality.
Music Video
Bettie Serveert's rendition of the song also came with a music video which added an additional layer of interpretation to the song.
Lyrics
The lyrics of the song are a blend of romantic disillusionment and desire, making it a standout track on both Bright Eyes' and Bettie Serveert's respective albums.
Influence
Since its release, "Lover I Don't Have to Love" has been cited as an influence for a number of indie rock artists and bands.

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