Cruel to Be Kind

Nick Lowe

About Cruel to Be Kind

"Cruel to Be Kind" is a song by Nick Lowe, co-written by Lowe and his former Brinsley Schwarz bandmate Ian Gomm. Written by Lowe and Gomm while the pair were in Brinsley Schwarz, the song was saved on a demo until Columbia Records convinced Lowe to release it. Musically the song was inspired by "The Love I Lost" by Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes, an influence reflected in more recent performances of the song. Released as a single in 1979, cover art by Antoinette Laumer Sales , the song peaked at number 12 on both the UK and US charts that summer. It also peaked at No. 12 in Canada and Australia. In the US, where it is one of Lowe's most well-known works, it remains his only single to hit the top 40, whereas in the UK "I Love the Sound of Breaking Glass" remains his biggest hit after reaching number 7 a year earlier. The song was accompanied by a music video featuring Lowe's marriage to Carlene Carter. 


Year:
1995
3:27
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Oh I can't take another heartache
Though you say you're my friend, I'm at my wit's end
You say your love is bonafide, but that don't coincide
With the things that you do
And when I ask you to be nice, you say

You've gotta be cruel to be kind, in the right measure
Cruel to be kind, it's a very good sign
Cruel to be kind, means that I love you, baby
(You've gotta be cruel)
You gotta be cruel to be kind

Well I do my best to understand dear
But you still mystify and I want to know why
I pick myself up off the ground
To have you knock me back down, again and again
And when I ask you to explain, you say

You've gotta be cruel to be kind, in the right measure
Cruel to be kind, it's a very good sign
Cruel to be kind, means that I love you, baby
(You've gotta be cruel)
You gotta be cruel to be kind

Well I do my best to understand dear
But you still mystify and I want to know why
I pick myself up off the ground
To have you knock me back down, again and again
And when I ask you to explain, you say

You've gotta be cruel to be kind, in the right measure
Cruel to be kind, it's a very good sign
Cruel to be kind, means that I love you baby
(You've gotta be cruel)
You gotta be cruel to be kind

(Cruel to be kind), oh in the right measure
(Cruel to be kind), it's a very very very good sign
(Cruel to be kind), it means that I love you, baby
(You've gotta be cruel)
You gotta be cruel to be kind

(Cruel to be kind), oh in the right measure
(Cruel to be kind), yes it's a very very very good sign
(Cruel to be kind), it means that I love you, baby
(You've gotta be cruel)
You gotta be cruel to be kind

(Cruel to be kind), oh in the right measure
(Cruel to be kind), yes it's a very very very good sign
(Cruel to be kind), it means that I love you

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Nick Lowe

Nicholas Drain "Nick" Lowe (born 24 March 1949), is an English singer-songwriter, musician and producer. more »

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Written by: Ian Robert Gomm, Nicholas Orain Lowe

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11 facts about this song

Artist
"Cruel to Be Kind" is a song by British pop-rock musician Nick Lowe. He is known for his calculatedly quirky and sardonic songwriting, which is perfectly encapsulated in this song.
Release Date
This popular track was released in 1979 as a single and is arguably Nick Lowe’s most recognizable and celebrated song.
Album Appearance
It was featured on Lowe's second album "Labour of Lust" which was a major commercial success.
Song Inspiration
The song has its roots in Lowe’s previous band, Brinsley Schwarz – a more mellow, country-rock version of the song was recorded by the band in the early '70s.
Chart Performance
"Cruel to Be Kind" is Lowe's biggest hit, reaching number 12 in the United States, number 10 in Canada, and number 12 in Lowe's native United Kingdom.
Lyrics
The lyrics are a play on the phrase "You've got to be cruel to be kind" – ostensibly a contradiction but when you think about it, it makes sense in a tough-love sort of way. The chorus has a catchy, singable melody that offsets the slightly caustic lyrics.
Music Video
The music video for this song is pretty famous, showing scenes from Nick Lowe’s actual wedding to Carlene Carter.
Reception
Critics hailed the song as a gem of New Wave rock, with its simplistic structure, catchy rhythm and Nick Lowe’s laid back vocal delivery.
Collaborations
The harmonies on the track are sung by none other than blues legend, Huey Lewis.
Legacy
Despite not reaching number one, "Cruel to Be Kind" remains one of the defining songs of the late '70s power pop movement. It has been covered by various artists and continues to receive regular airplay.
Movie Appearance
The song was featured in the 1996 movie "10 Things I Hate About You." The band in the movie performs "Cruel to Be Kind" at the prom.

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