Can You Forgive Her?

Pet Shop Boys

About Can You Forgive Her?

"Can You Forgive Her?" is a song by Pet Shop Boys, recorded for their 1993 album Very. It remains one of the more dramatic songs recorded by the duo—reminiscent of early hits like "It's a Sin". The lyrics describe in the second person a young man's humiliation when his girlfriend accuses him of still being in love with a childhood friend; the woman is "not prepared to share you with a memory", and is "going to go and get herself a real man instead". The title of the song derives from the Anthony Trollope novel of the same name. "Can You Forgive Her?" was released as Very's lead single, almost four months before the LP itself, and became the duo's 13th top-ten single in the United Kingdom, debuting and peaking at number seven. Although it peaked outside the US Billboard Hot 100, it became a number-one single on the Billboard Dance Club Songs chart. The song became a top-ten hit in Denmark, Finland, Italy and Sweden. The second B-side, "What Keeps Mankind Alive?", appears on the 2001 re-release of Introspective, having originally being recorded for a BBC Radio programme in 1988 narrated by Sting celebrating the 60th anniversary of Bertolt Brecht and Kurt Weill's acclaimed musical, The Threepenny Opera. 


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Another night with open eyes
Too late to sleep, too soon to rise
You're short of breath, is it a heart attack?
Hot and feverish you face the fact

You're in love, and it feels like shame
Because she's gone and made a fool of you in public again
You're in love, and it feels like pain
Because you know there's too much truth in everything she claims

So ask yourself now, can you forgive her
If she wants you to?
Ask yourself, can you even deliver
What she demands of you?

You drift into the strangest dreams
Of youthful follies and changing teams
Admit you're wrong, oh, no, not yet
Then you wake up and remember that you can't forget

She's made you some kind of laughing stock
Because you dance to disco, and you don't like rock
She'd make fun of you, and even in bed
Said she was gonna go and get herself a real man instead

So ask yourself now, can you forgive her
If she begs you to?
Ask yourself, can you even deliver
What she demands of you?

Or do you want revenge?
But that's childish, so childish!
(That's childish, so childish!)

Remember when you were more easily led
Behind the cricket pavilion and the bicycle shed
Trembling as your dreams came true
You looked right into those blue eyes and knew

It was love, and now you can't pretend
You've forgotten all the promises of that first friend
It's bad enough, she knows how you feel
But she's not prepared to share you with the memory

So ask yourself now, can you forgive her
If she begs you to?
Ask yourself, can you even deliver
What she demands of you?
Ask yourself now, can you forgive her
If she begs you to?
And ask yourself, can you even deliver
What she demands of you?

Or do you want revenge?
But that's childish, so childish!

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Written by: CHRISTOPHER LOWE, NEIL TENNANT

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10 facts about this song

Release Date
"Can You Forgive Her?" is a song from Pet Shop Boys, released as the lead single from their album, "Very" in 1993.
Chart Performance
The song peaked at number seven on the UK Singles Chart, marking the duo's 14th top 10 hit in the UK.
Music Genre
Classified under Synthpop, a subgenre of pop, this song showcases Pet Shop Boys' signature synthesized melodies and catchy beats.
Album Success
The song significantly contributed to the commercial success of the album "Very", which became the band's first UK number-one album on its release.
Lyric Meaning
The lyrics of the song deal with a man who is conflicted about his sexuality, a common theme addressed by Pet Shop Boys in response to societal attitudes toward homosexuality.
Music Video
The music video for the song was directed by Howard Greenhalgh and featured the band disguised in orange body suits and bobble hats.
Notable Accolade
In 1994, "Can You Forgive Her?" was nominated for the Brit Award for Best British Single.
Signature Song
This song is often considered one of the Pet Shop Boys' most recognizable and famous songs.
Cover Versions
Several artists have covered "Can You Forgive Her?" showcasing its impact on pop music; notable covers include those by Starsailor and Kid606.
Cultural Impact
The song, like many other Pet Shop Boys songs, is noted for its impact on the LGBT community because of its queer themes and the duo's known advocacy for LGBT rights.

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