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Chris
Lol, I love you so much baby :)
Like · Jun 08 at 7:28am
YMCMB
i've been good
Like · Jun 04 at 9:39am
I ♥ Ryan :)
Hi sweetie, Being a teen sucks! Lol. First, I’m going to give you my advice as a mom. Then I’m going to give you advice as a friend. But please think about both sides and don’t just dismiss the “mom advice”. Trust is hard. It takes one slip up for a person to lose it. And It’s very hard to gain back. You’ve got to really put yourself out there and it takes a lot of work and a lot of time, to gain that trust back. Even as an adult. You are also not the only teen to have to deal with that. I think everyone goes through that issue. It’s how you learn and become a wiser adult. The kind of attention you are going after is a temporary fix. And if you only go after temporary fixes, you’ll have a hard time finding real happiness. Your life is what you make of it. And, even as an adult, if you keep going back to the same behavior that gets you in trouble, you’ll never get that trust you’re looking for. Same concept as a relationship with a boyfriend. If you (general term) cheat on him, he’s not going to ever trust you around another guy by yourself. To gain that trust back you’ve got to give up certain parts of your lifestyle. It’s hard. All relationships (parents/kids, bf/gf, etc.) take a lot of work, a lot of compromises, and a lot of communication. Sweetie, I really think you should try and find another way to get attention that makes you feel good, and gets you in less trouble. Also rember, your life now, and your life as an adult, are completely different. Especially if you go after your goals and become a successful, productive adult. I left Wisconsin, not because I hated it, but because I didn’t want to be the adult with a minimum wage job. I wanted to make something of myself. I wanted to prove to myself I was better than some of those assholes I grew up with who came from money and had everything handed to them. I wanted to become my own person. And I did. It’s all about the choices you make for yourself. I know it’s hard without your mom. And I really wish she was still here too. I can’t even imagine what it’s like to be in your shoes. But rember, you have a dad who loves you and a wants you to be successful i life. And you have me, I’m here 24/7 for you. I just wish we were closer so I could actually see you. As a mom, I want my girls, you and Bentley to have a great life and to find a life that makes you happy. I scold Kara when she does dumb shit. She gets grounded and stuff taken away. She has lied to me and I still have a hard time trusting what she says sometimes. We as parents, don’t want our children having babies, giving up your lives to be raising kids, or getting into legal trouble that’ll prevent you from getting good jobs later in life. Your life is just beginning! But, trust is also a two way streak. Both sides have to be willing to put themselves out there to be able to gain anything back. Ok, done mom preaching. WIth all that said, I’m going to give you friend advice that I tell to my friends who have their own issues. Stop finding guys who just want to get in your pants. Look for someone who wants to be with you outside of the bedroom or the back seat of a car. Someone who treats you like the beautiful person that you are. Find your best friend and don’t worry about getting laid. Guarantee you, half the people talking about it, aren’t even doing it. And if your friends are encouraging you to do dumb stuff, find different friends. I graduated High School with only a handful of friends. But we didn’t judge each other or force anyone to do anything. Or pick on each other for not doing something. I guarantee, if you can find that one friend who is a good person, it will help your self esteem. My next piece of advice, ask your dad to get you back into counseling. Even if it’s two times a month. And if he can’t, find that person you can confide in and gives great advice. Can you talk to your school counselor? I am always here too. I’m a good listener and have been through a lot of what you are going through. I have a lot of life experience I can share if you want it. Lastly - suicide. Don’t! Don’t you dare! You deserve so much more than only 17 years of life. You haven’t even experienced the good stuff. Take life day by day, doing the best that you can do. If you mess up, fix it. But let all the stuff that burdens yous, just slide right off your shoulders. Who cares what anyone else thinks of you? All that matters is what you think of you. And I see a beautiful 17 year old with so much to live for, and live for the experiences that are going to happen once you graduate High School. You’ll be moving on to bigger and better things. Trust me, life starts after High School. Great experiences and some pretty crappy ones. But you get over the crap and move on to the next good experience. You are almost there! One more year. It’s a big step with a lot of responsibility. You’ll make a lot of mistakes, but you’ll learn from them. Your life in your eyes is messed up, but sweetie, we all have a messed up story. And those “messed up” lives we have teach us what not to be like or live like as an adult out on our own. I love you very much Krystal. I love you and Bentley like my own kids. There’s nothing I wouldn’t try to do for you. And I really can’t wait to see you. It has been a long time. Promise me you won’t hurt yourself and you will call me if you ever need to talk. Life is hard, but the hard parts make the good parts so much better! Write me soon! Love you! Monica
4 Likes · Jun 04 at 7:34am
YMCMB
hey how u been?
Like · Jun 03 at 9:44am
Chris
Yes way baby
Like · Jun 03 at 8:47am
YMCMB
hey Krystal;
Like · Jun 02 at 10:16am
titanfall99
hi
1 Like · Jun 02 at 7:50am
Chris
Nah, that's just your cuteness radiating into silliness
Like · May 30 at 10:51pm
Chris
Lol, I do love that butt too ;) And I love you with all my height. I would say heart but my height is taller :D
1 Like · May 20 at 7:18pm
Chris
Plus this site was giving me viruses so I had to stop coming here until it was fixed.
1 Like · May 19 at 5:31pm
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~Krystal~


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