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Sorry about your lose:( I hope your okay?? Message me if you wanna talk about it
Like · Mar 14, 2015 at 7:15pm
yesi
i've been good
Like · Jun 04, 2014 at 4:39pm
Krystal :3
Hi sweetie, Being a teen sucks! Lol. First, I’m going to give you my advice as a mom. Then I’m going to give you advice as a friend. But please think about both sides and don’t just dismiss the “mom advice”. Trust is hard. It takes one slip up for a person to lose it. And It’s very hard to gain back. You’ve got to really put yourself out there and it takes a lot of work and a lot of time, to gain that trust back. Even as an adult. You are also not the only teen to have to deal with that. I think everyone goes through that issue. It’s how you learn and become a wiser adult. The kind of attention you are going after is a temporary fix. And if you only go after temporary fixes, you’ll have a hard time finding real happiness. Your life is what you make of it. And, even as an adult, if you keep going back to the same behavior that gets you in trouble, you’ll never get that trust you’re looking for. Same concept as a relationship with a boyfriend. If you (general term) cheat on him, he’s not going to ever trust you around another guy by yourself. To gain that trust back you’ve got to give up certain parts of your lifestyle. It’s hard. All relationships (parents/kids, bf/gf, etc.) take a lot of work, a lot of compromises, and a lot of communication. Sweetie, I really think you should try and find another way to get attention that makes you feel good, and gets you in less trouble. Also rember, your life now, and your life as an adult, are completely different. Especially if you go after your goals and become a successful, productive adult. I left Wisconsin, not because I hated it, but because I didn’t want to be the adult with a minimum wage job. I wanted to make something of myself. I wanted to prove to myself I was better than some of those assholes I grew up with who came from money and had everything handed to them. I wanted to become my own person. And I did. It’s all about the choices you make for yourself. I know it’s hard without your mom. And I really wish she was still here too. I can’t even imagine what it’s like to be in your shoes. But rember, you have a dad who loves you and a wants you to be successful i life. And you have me, I’m here 24/7 for you. I just wish we were closer so I could actually see you. As a mom, I want my girls, you and Bentley to have a great life and to find a life that makes you happy. I scold Kara when she does dumb shit. She gets grounded and stuff taken away. She has lied to me and I still have a hard time trusting what she says sometimes. We as parents, don’t want our children having babies, giving up your lives to be raising kids, or getting into legal trouble that’ll prevent you from getting good jobs later in life. Your life is just beginning! But, trust is also a two way streak. Both sides have to be willing to put themselves out there to be able to gain anything back. Ok, done mom preaching. WIth all that said, I’m going to give you friend advice that I tell to my friends who have their own issues. Stop finding guys who just want to get in your pants. Look for someone who wants to be with you outside of the bedroom or the back seat of a car. Someone who treats you like the beautiful person that you are. Find your best friend and don’t worry about getting laid. Guarantee you, half the people talking about it, aren’t even doing it. And if your friends are encouraging you to do dumb stuff, find different friends. I graduated High School with only a handful of friends. But we didn’t judge each other or force anyone to do anything. Or pick on each other for not doing something. I guarantee, if you can find that one friend who is a good person, it will help your self esteem. My next piece of advice, ask your dad to get you back into counseling. Even if it’s two times a month. And if he can’t, find that person you can confide in and gives great advice. Can you talk to your school counselor? I am always here too. I’m a good listener and have been through a lot of what you are going through. I have a lot of life experience I can share if you want it. Lastly - suicide. Don’t! Don’t you dare! You deserve so much more than only 17 years of life. You haven’t even experienced the good stuff. Take life day by day, doing the best that you can do. If you mess up, fix it. But let all the stuff that burdens yous, just slide right off your shoulders. Who cares what anyone else thinks of you? All that matters is what you think of you. And I see a beautiful 17 year old with so much to live for, and live for the experiences that are going to happen once you graduate High School. You’ll be moving on to bigger and better things. Trust me, life starts after High School. Great experiences and some pretty crappy ones. But you get over the crap and move on to the next good experience. You are almost there! One more year. It’s a big step with a lot of responsibility. You’ll make a lot of mistakes, but you’ll learn from them. Your life in your eyes is messed up, but sweetie, we all have a messed up story. And those “messed up” lives we have teach us what not to be like or live like as an adult out on our own. I love you very much Krystal. I love you and Bentley like my own kids. There’s nothing I wouldn’t try to do for you. And I really can’t wait to see you. It has been a long time. Promise me you won’t hurt yourself and you will call me if you ever need to talk. Life is hard, but the hard parts make the good parts so much better! Write me soon! Love you! Monica
4 Likes · Jun 04, 2014 at 2:34pm
yesi
hey how u been?
Like · Jun 03, 2014 at 4:44pm
yesi
hey Krystal;
Like · Jun 02, 2014 at 5:16pm
titanfall99
hi
1 Like · Jun 02, 2014 at 2:50pm
~Krystal~
Wtf? why can't we add people anymore?! Fucking Lyrics is always gettin messed. I think ima delete
6 Likes · May 12, 2014 at 6:21pm
~Krystal~
I am obsessed with this song ~Dust by Eli Young Band.. She's sick of this town, she's sick of that boy Yeah she's sick of dreams that never take flight There's gotta be more than the same old story So she's gonna turn the page tonight And turn the radio up (turn the radio up) Roll the windows down She got a full tank of gas (she got a full tank of gas) Ain't no stopping her now She's got the pedal to the floor in a hand-me-down Ford, Yeah, the only thing that's left to do Is catch a couple green lights and those baby blue eyes Are leaving nothing in that rearview But dust, nothing but dust She's fighting back tears, she's fighting back years Of the only life she's ever known There's a future that's bright in the dead of this night, And all she's gotta do is go And turn the radio up (turn the radio up) Roll the windows down She got an open road (she got an open road) Ain't no stopping her now She's got the pedal to the floor in a hand-me-down Ford, Yeah, the only thing that's left to do Is catch a couple green lights and those baby blue eyes Are leaving nothing in that rearview But dust, nothing but dust (Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh) She got the radio up, She got the windows down, No she won't look back Ain't no stopping her, Ain't no stopping her now… She's got the pedal to the floor in a hand-me-down Ford, Yeah, the only thing that's left to do Is catch a couple green lights and those baby blue eyes Are leaving nothing in that rearview But dust
1 Like · May 02, 2014 at 5:10pm
~Krystal~
That moment when you're walking down the street and you friend looks at you and says "Rember when we were kids and we would walk down this same street bein like 'damn gurl all these gangsta round here be lookin at our asses'
2 Likes · Apr 17, 2014 at 6:18pm
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yes we do... snapchat me ur Skype name
Like · Apr 16, 2014 at 9:12pm
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